Trees~

I have always loved trees.  I'm not really sure why.  They just seem so solid, I guess.  The scene with Frodo in the forest, in Lord of the Rings has always been one of my favorites.  The trees in the scene were the ancients, and had seen much.  I suppose that is true of many trees.  Perhaps that is part of the appeal to me, also.  The fact that they have seen the world turn for many years, and seen many different things.  I took the picture at the end of this post while lying on the ground underneath a giant oak.  The branches on this tree were so much like protecting arms, I just had to snap this photo.  Some of my favorite dates with my husband were spent under trees.  Picnics, deer hunts, and just lazy afternoons on quilts.  It's actually kind of ironic that my husband was a logger!  A person who "slays" trees. He loves old hardwood too, though, so I can't really hold it against him!  Probably one of my favorite poems too, has a tree.  It's a very commonly known poem.  Longfellow's "Village Smithy".  I used to wish when I was little, that I could see that "spreading chestnut tree".  It just seemed like such a safe place to be.  I know that some societies used to believe in "sacred" trees.  I can see how you could become confused about that.  But really , we have to remember to worship the "Creator" of the tree, and not the tree itself.  Every time I lay beneath an old oak, or pine, I thank God for using His creation as an example of the protection He provides.  I can imagine God using His arms like those old branches , to cover me.  And I feel safe. ~ Ruby Jeanette

Wide Open~

I had a friend to put as her status on FB, "Isn't it funny how some people can be so different on here, as compared to how they are in person?".  Some one else commented and said, "That's not funny, it's sad."  And I said, "It's a shame.  If I like you on Face Book, then I like you everywhere.  The real world, the digital world, wherever.  If I don't like you on Face Book , then I probably don't like you in the real world, the digital world, or anywhere else."  I got to thinking that maybe that sounded kind of harsh.  My plain spoken - ness, has gotten me into trouble  a lot of times.  I always tell people I was born without that filter between my brain and my  mouth.  If I think it, it flies right out.  My husband sometimes stands with his jaw dropped, and say things like , "I can't believe you actually said that!".  Or,  " Holy cow."  Or my favorite, saying nothing, while just shaking his head.  While my intent has never been to hurt people's feelings, believe it or not, I think sometimes the world could use a little more "truth" .  I don't surround myself with sycophants who only repeat back what I want to hear.  It's very difficult to find a real friend, who as Brandy says will answer honestly when you ask, "Does this skirt make my butt look big?".  Of course, I already know my heinie is  wide, so I know better than to ASK that question, but you get the idea.  The long and the short of it, (or the fat, and the skinny!) ,  is sometimes we need to hear the cold , hard , facts. If you are a real friend you will tell the person you love what they need to hear, not what they want to hear.  And as far as the digital world goes, let me say it again, I don't hide my posts from anyone, because I don't have anything to hide.  If I wouldn't say it to your face, I wouldn't post it.  You will never have to wonder where I stand , or how I feel about something.  If you want to know something about me, ask.  I 'll answer honestly.  Unless, of course, I feel like it's none of your business.  But I will let you know that too, lol.  But the same goes for me.  If you feel, or think I am being hypocritical, call me on it. I think if we all held one another a little more accountable, the world would be a little bit better place.  Just sayin'.

Only Little, A Little While~

I guess I should clarify what I was talking about on my FB page, and here is as good a place as any , I suppose.  There has been a lot of negative stuff posted lately on FB and other social sites, like the news page on Yahoo!.   Apparently Angelina Jolie's little girl Shiloh had a picture posted of her playing in the pool wearing nothing but a pair of boys style board shorts. The child in question is all of 4 or 5 years old, and obviously has nothing to show up on top.  What got the uproar started was that Angelina and Brad let her wear boys clothes.  I'm not really sure why this is such a problem for people, but the reaction it got was huge.  People went so far as to say the little one was going to grow up and be a homosexual just like her mom. I draw the line at that.  Now, let me just say,  I  don't agree with homosexuality.  But if one of my sons came to me and said , "Mom, I'm gay.", I would deal with it by saying, "Okay."  I might go cry in my room, or be upset, but I would never say, "I don't love you anymore."  Your kid is your kid, no matter what .  If they turn out to be an alcoholic or some other something, most people wouldn't turn from their child.  So. Back to your child dressing a certain way.  When I was little until the time I was 12 or so, I wore mostly boy type clothing.  I had a cowboy hat, boots, and more ball caps than a lot of guys.  I  DID not play with "girl" toys, wear makeup, high heels, or dress up like a princess.  I DID run around without my shirt, climb trees like Tarzan, shoot guns, and work in my Daddy's shop.  I was not "sexually confused".  I knew I was a girl.  I "liked" boys.  It was just more fun to be  a "tomboy" than a girly girl.  I mean , really, Camping versus Slumber/Makeup parties?  No brainer! But , I did start wearing makeup about age 14, and carrying a purse( horrors!).  I DID get married, and have children.  I wasn't growing up wondering if I was gay.  When I posted that on FB about our reactions, in saying that, I meant that my boys do not even know what gay is.  So if I over react to something one of them wants to wear, I think you can cause them to wonder, "Is that what I am?  What does that mean?".  Kids hone in on that kind of thing.  You know what I mean.  "Let's really freak Mom and Dad out!".  I guess what I'm really trying to say, is that kids are just kids.  A little girl wearing a ball cap and jeans is no more likely to turn out gay , than a little boy who paints his nails for Halloween.  Just let them be little for a little while!  The great big world slaps all of us in the face soon enough with all the hatred it can find.  I just want mine to be able to be okay in our little bubble , for a little while longer. 

Gimme an F! (For Fall!)~

It's that season!  Ohhhhhhh, the beginning of my favorite!  I love October and November!  I guess it's partly because of the scenery , cooler temperatures and fun activities.  But , mostly I think it's because my most treasured memories are tied to this time of year.  I met my husband in late September of 1995.  The weather was just like it has been this fall.  Actually starting out cooler, with that little bit of a bite in the air.  You know the one I mean , that little crunch like a candied apple.  My two sons were both born in November,1998 and 2000, with the smell of Thanksgiving turkey from the hospital cafeteria swirling down the halls.  It's dress-up time, and an excuse to gorge on candy without remorse for just one day.  It's Thanks-Living time .  Time to live out our thanks for all that God has blessed us with this whole year through.  It's not as crazy as Christmas, and people aren't quite so aggravated with the holiday season yet.  It's chunky sweater and knee-high boot time.  Just the feel in your soul, that somehow we made it through one more year, and harvest time approaches again.  I'm not sure if I would feel like the year was complete without the autumn season.  So, go ahead.  Dust off your cord pants, hikers, and cable knits........it's Fall!

Anxiously awaiting those first leaf piles!~ Ruby Jeanette

Every Now and Then~

Here a while back I posted some funny everyday holidays on my blog.  I thought it would be fun to check back in with their website again and see what holiday today is.  Well, here it is.  Today is ........"Toot Your Flute" day.  Now where I come from , this expression means to kinda' brag on yourself.  As in,  "Well, aren't we tooting our own flute today?".  In general this is probably not a good practice, but I think everyone should be allowed to "Toot their Flute" occasionally.  So, today's the day!  If you read my post, I want you to leave me a comment with one thing you think is great about yourself, or that you  are proud of for accomplishing.  Let's show ourselves some love today, and maybe boost our own confidence just a little.  So come on "Toot Your Flute!".

Ruby Jeanette

What a Difference! ( A New Pill Makes!)~

I have had a super-busy day today!  I got up at 6 am, cooked 2 dozen pancakes, cleaned both my bathrooms, did two loads of laundry, did school work, two loads of dishes, cleaned my kitchen, started and cooked lunch, cleaned the front yard, took 3 boys to the river to catch crawdaddies, went to the bank, paid bills, grocery shopped, came home, cooked supper, did one more load of laundry, cleaned the kitchen BACK up, clipped some coupons, and read a chapter in my book.  Whew.  All that without a nap!  I've just got to tell everyone......I went to the cardiologist's and saw their new APN.  She was concerned about the level of fatigue that the Coreg heart medication was causing me.  She wanted to know if I had ever taken Metoprolol, and I told her yes, it worked really well for me, and I had asked if I could go off of the Coreg earlier, and they told me "No, I was just going to have to learn to deal with it. "  Well,  she was not satisfied with this answer.  She told me if it made me that tired, what good was it?  So. As of last week I started my old medication, and the change has been spectacular to say the least!  I have cleaned out my laundry room of clutter, gotten my living room back into shape, been focused enough to have school super-organized, and many other things I was not able to accomplish before!  It's amazing to be able to feel like a "real" person again.  Now, I can't tell you that the lupus does not still bother me.  That would not  be true.  But , I have also started taking krill oil, and probiotics every day.  And my lupus symptoms are also much improved.  I am able to get up and down now, without QUITE so much pain in my knees and feet.  I tell ya' what, I've just got so much to be thankful for, I would hardly even know where to start telling you about it.  Needless to say, even if this is just a temporary improvement, I will take every GOOD day I can get! All glory to God , who can even work through doctors, by giving them wisdom.  So , even if you feel like your situation is hopeless, don't give up.  A better day might be just around the corner!

Here's to brighter times (however fleeting)  ~  Ruby Jeanette

No Refunds?~

A gift is free.  There are no strings attached, all you must do is reach out and take it.
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I heard a good message the other day about salvation.  I  was blessed to be able to give my life over to Jesus very young.  About age 5, but I never tire of hearing those words.  We almost all have heard John 3:16  .  But I like verses 17 and 18 also.  vs. 17 For God sent not His Son into the world to condemn the world, but that the world through Him might be saved.  vs. 18 He that believeth on Him is not condemned, but he that believeth not, is condemned already because he hath not believed in the name of the only begotten Son of God.    See the awesome thing about salvation , is that it is a gift that God gives.  You know , you can stand around all day trying to hand someone a gift, but if they don't reach out and take it, it can't be a gift, really.  The thing that really stood out to me about the message I heard the other day was the fact that once God gives you salvation,  and you accept the gift that He offers, is He won't take it back.  It's yours!  Yours to keep forever!  But you know what ?  He would never take it away from you.............but you could give it back.  Like all gifts, you could decide you no longer wanted it.  You could say , "Well, I've decided this doesn't really fit..........", and return it.  God made us with free will.  We are not mindless robots, who once receiving His gift, become slaves , as it were, with no choice.    So yes, Salvation is eternal.......but only if you want it.  In this world of instant, free, and cheap, how about a gift that's instant, free and priceless?  God holds out this gift,  won't you reach out and take it? 

Ruby Jeanette